IN LOVING MEMORY OF KANDA MICHELLE JACOBS

My sincere thank you and appreciation to Desi for starting me on my way
in building this MEMORIAL website IN MEMORY OF MY KANDA
From Kanda's Mom, Dianna

OCTOBER 2004

Kanda's website is continually updated

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ALL
BACKGROUND MUSIC IS OF A MIDI TYPE
EXCEPT THE SONG
"PRECIOUS CHILD" IN WHICH PERMISSION IS GIVEN
FOR MEMORIAL WEBSITES.
http://www.karentaylorgood.com/free_mp3_downloads.html
"THANK YOU KAREN TAYLOR GOOD"

APPRECIATION FOR MIDI MUSIC AND BACKGROUND DESIGN
IS LINKED ON
http://www.kandamjacobs.com/apps/links/

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IF ANYTHING WITH A COPYRIGHT IS UNKNOWINGLY USED
ON THIS WEBSITE, IT WILL BE REMOVED UPON NOTIFICATION
WITH MY APOLOGY


SEASONED GRIEF
Poem written Autumn of 2008
http://www.seasonedgrief.com/seasonedgrief.htm



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PLEASE VISIT MY NEW WEBSITE OF POEMS
ADDED IN JULY 2009

THESE POEMS WERE WRITTEN (2004 - 2009)
AND EXPRESS MY STRUGGLES AS I

 CONTINUE TO WALK THIS UNKNOWN

JOURNEY AND STRIVE TO SURVIVE

"THE WORST LOSS OF ALL"

 "THE LOSS OF MY PRECIOUS KANDA"

  It is my hope that these poems and stories bring comfort to

beareved parents. 

http://www.seasonedgrief.com

click the above link

PHOTO GALLERY ADDED JANUARY 2010
PICTURES OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS
OVER 500 PHOTOS IN THIS ALBUM

http://www.kandamjacobs.com/apps/photos/album?albumid=7950167

KANDA MICHELLE JACOBS

5/24/73 - 4/13/04

We do not know how we have managed to live through these past 5 1/2 years without you.  Your Dad and I both turn and stare at any short girl with blonde hair pulled up in a pony tail.  We are in a trance until she disappears out of sight.  We do not even converse with each other because we know what the other one is thinking so no words are spoken. 

We have asked 'WHY" a million times but there will be no answers in our life time.  

We feel so guilty for not being more perceptive of what was going on with your body.   We were your parents and we struggled constantly trying to protect you, moving you from the house on the highway to the cozy house in town.  We could finally sleep at night, knowing when you returned home after work early in the morning hours, you would be safe.   

If only we had taken you to a specialist concerning your seizures.  Why were we so ignorant concerning seizure activity?   We feel we failed you in some way, but we can not turn back the clock before 4-13-04 and fix our mistake.  

 WE NOW HAVE TO LIVE OUR LIVES WITHOUT OUR KANDA

 

Kanda's life and death, click link below

http://www.kandamjacobs.com/capril132004.htm

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http://www.kandamjacobs.com/apps/guestbook

Please take a moment and sign Kanda's guestbook so

we know you were here, thank you

 

 

SHARI MARGARET NORTON HARLAN

7/6/64 - 7/6/05

Shari Norton Harlan, Kanda's cousin, passed away on her 41st birthday on July 6, 2005 from complications related to her reoccurring cancer.   She passed away peacefully in the care of ORMC Hospital in Orlando, Florida.   She fought her breast cancer with dignity and grace by sharing a web site with all and in February of 05 she thought she had won the race, but it was not to be.  

 All visitors are welcome to visit and to share Shari's journal as she fought so bravely and even though Shari is now in Heaven we, her family, check her guest book daily so feel free to sign in.   

Our family lost two beautiful young women within 15 months but sharing these web sites are so much a part of our healing.   We, the family of Shari, do very much thank everyone for all their support and prayers.

 

http://www.caringbridge.com/fl/shari

http://www.kandamjacobs.com/29ourshariangel.htm

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(Please sign Shari's guestbook)

http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/shari/guestbook.html

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IN MEMORY OF SHARI NORTON HARLAN

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KANDA'S CIRCLE OF LIFE

MAY 24, 1973 - APRIL 13, 2004

""KANDA MICHELLE JACOBS""

(Kanda drowned in her bath tub due to a clinical seizure)

 

click on link for information concerning her seizure

activity

http://www.kandamjacobs.com/ephedraandsezures.htm


click below for

KANDA'S CIRLCE OF LIFE

http://www.kandamjacobs.com/capril132004.htm

(scroll down for next collage)

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SHARI'S CIRCLE OF LIFE

JULY 6, 1964 - JULY 6, 2005

""SHARI MARGARET NORTON HARLAN""

""Shari Harlan passed away at 5:15AM on July 6, 2005

 from complications related to her reoccurring cancer.

She passed away peacefully in the care of

ORMC Hospital in

Orlando, Florida"".

 

click on link for Shari's journal as she fought her battle with cancer

www.caringbridge.com/fl/shari

http://www.kandamjacobs.com/29ourshariangel.htm

Collage and animation by

Julie Hollie

http://public.fotki.com/juliehollie/

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Julie,

Dianna, Kanda's Mom 4 ever

 Lana, Shari's Mom 4 ever

thank you with all our hearts.


You have given us our daughter's

"KANDA'S AND SHARI'S"

""CIRCLE OF LIFE""

4 EVER BEAUTIFUL

by Julie Hollie

IMPORTANT LINKS

Y.A.N.A. (you are not alone) BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP
FLORA, ILLINOIS
http://www.yanasupport.com

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WELCOME TO THE 1ST BAPTIST CHURCH OF
CLAY CITY, ILLINOIS
http://www.1stbaptistchurchofclaycity.com
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DAVID HANNA MINISTRIES
http://www.davidhannaministries.com/

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THE COMPASSIONATE FRIENDS
ONLINE SUPPORT OF ATLANTA, GA
http://www.tcfatlanta.org

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GRIEVING PARENTS ONLINE SUPPORT
http://www.grieving-parents.com/

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